Billie also known as Bella is a lifelong performer, educator, and practitioner of the mind, body and spirit whose path into submission/kink and all things BDSM is rooted in both lived experience and spiritual scholarship.

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Beginning her career in musical theatre, she spent years exploring embodiment, presence, and emotional storytelling on stage before transitioning into the work that has defined the last two decades of her life: tarot, mediumship, and occult study. She is a professional psychic medium, life coach, and an internationally respected teacher and author, as well as the creator and host of the Lunch Time with Demons podcast and the forthcoming book of the same name.

 

Alongside her spiritual and educational work, Billie has spent years as a professional submissive in both the New York and Los Angeles kink scenes. This dual path allows her to approach submission not as a performance or an aesthetic, but as a deeply embodied, self-directed practice built on agency, discernment, emotional intelligence, and self-knowledge. Her path now in kink looks like peace, fun and becoming a safe steward for those new to the world.  

 

Her teaching style is discussion-based, trauma-aware, and rooted in the belief that the “submissive role” is one of power, devotion, and a conscious choice. She is especially passionate about supporting those who struggle with visibility, self-worth, or the fear of “not being enough,” helping them reconnect to submission as a space of authenticity, gratitude, and personal sovereignty. Feeling safe, grounded; from the bottom up. 

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A Love Letter From Billie to you: 

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Dear Friend,

 

Whether you are seeking an intimacy coordinator / advisor for a film or stage production, or you’re interested in exploring how to cultivate a kink dynamic within your own personal relationship, I would be honored to support you in any way I can.

 

I bring lived experience as a submissive and now switch, and I am passionate about helping submissives, dominants, and fellow switches alike feel empowered, embodied, and fully expressed in their roles. Our work together can take place in a comfortable, discussion-based setting where all questions are welcome. My goal is to help you articulate your thoughts, feelings, and desires with clarity and confidence, while gently rewiring the pathways between the body’s truth and the limitations often shaped by conditioning, upbringing, and the taboos placed upon human nature.

 

May this process offer you a sense of peace, calm, and deep self-awareness...one that leaves you feeling sovereign, connected, and empowered.

 

I look forward to hearing from you.

 

With care,

Billie

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